thanks soooo much to Hugo @mastohost we are back up! My skills at server maintenance were not at all good enough to bring the server back from death. Hugo also upgraded us to the newest version and we are now running managed on https://masto.host infrastructure based in Portugal instead of a digital ocean droplet that I didn't know how to manage properly.
"Removed 49511 media attachments (approx. 29.8 GB)"
no gods no masters no admins
Temporary Autonomous Zone